When I jumped out of
our truck to give my dad a hug, the first thing he said to me was, "I just
wanted you to know you're worth it." On the drive back to our house, I
sobbed tears of joy, healing and gratefulness.
You have to
understand that I have lived in Springfield for four years and they hadn't ever
made it this way. I got married and circumstances prevented them from coming to
the wedding. I graduated from college and they were unable to attend the
graduation. So, this was more than just a visit to me, it was a huge love note
from my dad.
We spent the weekend
chatting on our deck, sipping coffee, my dad even went to the Skinny Improv
with us and our closest friends, I was able to cook and bake for them, we spent
real time together – I was able to share "my world" with them. We made
some wonderful memories that I will not forget.
Me & Daddeo @ the Skinny Improv
Never underestimate
the power of a father's love, the genuine interest a father shows in his child,
the care a father gives when he sees a need. My dad did more than come visit
me; he filled a place in my heart that is reserved for him.
And, I would be
completely ridiculous if I didn't thank the driver who made the trip possible –
my stepmom, Cathie! I cannot thank her enough for what she did.
ah, you made me cry. That is such a great way to explain how many, many gals feel when our families are distanced. I experienced this "it's never to late" moment with my dad last year, so I am right there with you! Beautifully worded.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Constance. I've always known he loves me but this was a showing of it that expressed it so powerfully, I had to write about it.
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