Friday, September 14, 2012

You're worth it

Recently my dad and stepmom surprised me with a visit. Between my dad and Dave, they planned the whole thing and had the timing for us to be at the same place at the time when they pulled into town. What an exciting moment that was!!!

When I jumped out of our truck to give my dad a hug, the first thing he said to me was, "I just wanted you to know you're worth it." On the drive back to our house, I sobbed tears of joy, healing and gratefulness.

You have to understand that I have lived in Springfield for four years and they hadn't ever made it this way. I got married and circumstances prevented them from coming to the wedding. I graduated from college and they were unable to attend the graduation. So, this was more than just a visit to me, it was a huge love note from my dad.

We spent the weekend chatting on our deck, sipping coffee, my dad even went to the Skinny Improv with us and our closest friends, I was able to cook and bake for them, we spent real time together – I was able to share "my world" with them. We made some wonderful memories that I will not forget.

Me & Daddeo @ the Skinny Improv

Never underestimate the power of a father's love, the genuine interest a father shows in his child, the care a father gives when he sees a need. My dad did more than come visit me; he filled a place in my heart that is reserved for him.

And, I would be completely ridiculous if I didn't thank the driver who made the trip possible – my stepmom, Cathie! I cannot thank her enough for what she did. 

2 comments:

  1. ah, you made me cry. That is such a great way to explain how many, many gals feel when our families are distanced. I experienced this "it's never to late" moment with my dad last year, so I am right there with you! Beautifully worded.

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  2. Thanks, Constance. I've always known he loves me but this was a showing of it that expressed it so powerfully, I had to write about it.

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