Clint Eastwood is like comfort food to me

With Clint Eastwood's new movie Trouble with the Curve coming out, I can't help but think of all of my childhood memories and long for the times when it seemed like life was simpler. It probably really wasn't as carefree as I remember, but time has a way of fogging the windows of memory.

Who knew that growing up watching Eastwood movies would not only seal my complete adoration for a man I'll never meet, but it would also conjure up the most wonderful comfort at the sight of him or his movies? My dad loved his movies and my mom loved him, so he was a frequent visitor in our living room.

I think of times when my whole family would be laughing until we were crying while watching Every Which Way But Loose. Everything was right in the world. Those movies brought us together and that is something I can now see and appreciate for what it truly was.

My favorite Eastwood movies:  Pale Rider, the aforementioned Every Which Way But Loose, Dirty Harry, Outlaw Josey Wales, Heartbreak Ridge and Absolute Power. I do have a feeling I will be adding Trouble with the Curve to my list.

Words of wisdom from Dirty Harry:
"I know what you're thinking. Did he fire six shots or only five? Well to tell you the truth in all this excitement I've kinda lost track myself. But being this is a .44 Magnum - the most powerful hand gun in the world and would blow your head clean off, you've got to ask yourself one question--Do I feel lucky? Well, do ya punk!"

You're worth it

Recently my dad and stepmom surprised me with a visit. Between my dad and Dave, they planned the whole thing and had the timing for us to be at the same place at the time when they pulled into town. What an exciting moment that was!!!

When I jumped out of our truck to give my dad a hug, the first thing he said to me was, "I just wanted you to know you're worth it." On the drive back to our house, I sobbed tears of joy, healing and gratefulness.

You have to understand that I have lived in Springfield for four years and they hadn't ever made it this way. I got married and circumstances prevented them from coming to the wedding. I graduated from college and they were unable to attend the graduation. So, this was more than just a visit to me, it was a huge love note from my dad.

We spent the weekend chatting on our deck, sipping coffee, my dad even went to the Skinny Improv with us and our closest friends, I was able to cook and bake for them, we spent real time together – I was able to share "my world" with them. We made some wonderful memories that I will not forget.

Me & Daddeo @ the Skinny Improv

Never underestimate the power of a father's love, the genuine interest a father shows in his child, the care a father gives when he sees a need. My dad did more than come visit me; he filled a place in my heart that is reserved for him.

And, I would be completely ridiculous if I didn't thank the driver who made the trip possible – my stepmom, Cathie! I cannot thank her enough for what she did.